Friday, November 2, 2012

Giving The Victims A Voice: KO's Abuse on Facebook - Stu

Ah, the ever patient, ever reasonable Stu. Who had been given huge responsibilities when KO went (as people say) thermonuclear on MOWFO when she was finally exposed and shown in the true light of day. Everyone (except for a dimwitted few) had seen with their own eyes what kind of shit KO did behind their backs. Stu was given a moderator position on MOWFO's list when Kimba (rightfully) spoke up and decided to leave the drama-causing bitch that KO is, in the dust.

Actually this whole thing had been shown the light of day before in this very blogger. Here is where it can be found: Troll Lashes Out Against MOWFO.

Now onto the abuse and further abuse this poor guy, Stu, has had to put up with.

The Great May 2012 Facebook Battle!

Posted Sunday, May 27 (8:42 PM) by "Karen Nesbit"
Hmmm...since MOFO is no longer an open organization, they need to change what the O in it stands for. How about Oppressive? since they ordered me to apologize to the bully who has abused me for several years and did it worse then ever while calling her abuse, 'snippy'

Posted Sunday, May 27 (8:47 PM) by Stu Chisholm
"...And that's been today's episode of 'Revisionist History!' Tune in next time to see why Pearl Harbor never really happened!"

Posted Sunday, May 27 (9:42 PM) by "Karen Nesbit"
This coming from someone who called the abuse merely 'snippy'. especially when she was knowingly reopening childhood wounds. and violated her own rules on her own yahoogroup to attack me

Posted Sunday, May 27 (9:45 PM) by Stu Chisholm
The exchanges I saw were catty, snippy, childish and totally NOT amounting to anything like abuse. I simply called it as I saw it. She admitted to violating the rules. She did everything she could to fix it. YOU violated the rules right back -- and to a much greater degree -- yet you did nothing to try to fix it. And that's the way it wuz.

Posted Monday, May 28 (7:56 AM) by "Karen Nesbit"
There were exchanges taht went on for years before you became a part of the group. She did nothing to fix it. You can't fix what she did. what? Say "I'm sorry?" Sorry's don't mend. She never said, "I'll never do it again." why? Because she will. I only defended myself being kicked when I was already down. (You went on about what a bad time she was having and ignored the traumas I was going through.) YOu also put me through the ringer of having people vote on me, brinigng back child hood scars (I'm never forgiving you for that) taking delight in your sadistic mannerism by even laughing at me, "YOu got voted off the island." Being rejected by the CAtholic bitches while being forced to stay in theri school system, both you and her opened up deep childhood scars. Has any abuser admitted to perpetrating the abuse ever?PLus you also stated that my closest friends wouldn't even be allowed to vote for me, rigging the vote. (and they know this). Why? something abotu f**king and the police. WHich is BS since this isn't even a crime. Just me veing victimized by Big Fudge again. Last good point: She's a 50-soemthing woman who wears pigtails. Enough said there.

Posted Monday, May 28 (8:00 AM) by "Karen Nesbit"
You also don't know what it's like being the only kid not getting a christmas present in school. It went on for almost a decade and scars deeply. (That type of stuff is big when you're a kid)> that's why Big Fudge would bring you all gifts and not me. She did it to open up childhood scars. YOu call it snippy. I call it abuse. Then she quoted my bullying stalker at Brick to drive us apart because he was supporting me. HER QUOTING MY STALKER IS ONE THING I WILL NEVER FORIGVE. I can see why Penguicon kicked her out. You call it snippy is inaccurate. She usedto taunt me with, "I can get you banned from the group. I have the power. Ha ha ha. Remember that about me." I told her how cruel that was and she kept doing it until I blew up at her. then she said, "Sorry," but kept on doing it. She did nothing to fix anything but say 'sorry.' When will her behavior change? She always needs someone to bash and those of us who were her targets always had to take turns.

Posted Monday, May 28 (1:31 PM) by Stu Chisholm
This looks like a copy/paste of old posts...
Seriously, the only way you can overcome past trauma and "scars" is to seek therapy or treatment. You have done nothing. Then we are all supposed to magically know that some remark we make or action we take will trigger some deep hurt that we have NO WAY OF KNOWING ABOUT??? Seriously???
All I have is my perspective; you were a part of a group I joined and apparently had the occasional tiff with the organizer. Nothing unusual. Your exchanges were 99% cordial in front of me, and the few that weren't were silly, childish, Jr. High nonsense. I can't answer for her. But when I was placed in the untenable position of having to "do something" as demanded by the members, I did my best. I took action, and I did it in the most fair, above-board manner possible. All the while, I took a great deal of time to talk to you via e-mail, giving you the best advice I can muster, all in an effort to keep things from blowing up. But you rejected everything I had to say and only made things worse. There's nothing I can do about that. I also told you about why I questioned M & M's objectivity, but I NEVER shut them out! In fact, I made it a point to HAND DELIVER a survey to both of them a second time. They simply chose to not answer. I will also say that their two votes would not have made a difference, assuming they were 100% in your corner.
You can go ahead and not forgive, but that will only harm you. I have a VERY clear conscience. Venting online, consuming all the "seaweed" you can find and harboring hatred will never bring you peace or get you past all of your demons. I'm very serious when I say that you need to talk to a professional. Doing so is NOT an admission of anything; it doesn't mean you're crazy or in the wrong! It just means that you're not an island and you, like everyone else, need a hand to get through what life dishes out. You needed help recently with your infection, right? Well, problems of the mind are no different than problems of the body. Despite what you might think, I always have been, and remain, your friend. And as your friend, this is my advice: get some help. I'll even go with you if you'd like.

Posted Monday, May 28 (1:50 PM) by "Karen Nesbit"
therepy and treatment? Dude, I ain't like your crazy friends Brick and Chris. and what you did was not fair and there are those who agree with me. Not letting my two best friends vote for me because I am f**king them? Because that's got something with the way cops do things? WTF? Hardly fair. THIS WASN'T A GODD***N POLICE MATTER! Make me apologize for defending myself? Feeling all sorry for Big Fudge going through crap but ignoring that I was going through crap and was down when she broadsided me? Hardly fair at all, dude. those that oppose you just would never speak up. they feel it's useless and I've been told that time and time again.

Posted Monday, May 28 (1:51 PM) by "Karen Nesbit"
and I stand by my original statement that O needs to be changed...and with you adopting police tactics, it fits.

Posted Tuesday, May 29 (8:23 PM) by Stu Chisholm
No, you're certainly NOT like Chris or Brick... you have REAL problems. Nobody's put up a website or posts blogs solely about THEM. What I did was completely, 100% as fair as I could make it. In fact, by my writing you "back channel" to try to give you an advantage was over-the-top fair! And if anyone agrees with you, they haven't told ME. (Nor has anyone suggested what way I was not fair.) And yes, it can be safely assumed that the testimony of someone sexually involved with a person accused of something will be biased. Absolutely everything from law enforcement to simply corporate policy reflects this reality -- I didn't make it up! And I STILL invited M & M to submit a survey TWICE. All to be as fair as possible.
Nobody said you shouldn't defend yourself. It was HOW you did it. Don't you understand that YET??? Even when Kimba posted her rant, she didn't use four-letter-words; she didn't insult your appearance, physical quirks or the way you dress. She never brought up religion. YOU DID ALL OF THAT. You did that to the point where you made members DEMAND ACTION. Some left, but most bombarded my inbox with "make this stop" requests. (Nobody but you complained about Kimba's letter.) Don't you GET this yet? YET??? It's been HALF A YEAR!
You brought this all on the group, it got dumped in MY lap, and I didn't like it one bit. I still stand by MY statement: you're so quick to point out problems that other people might have, but ignore your own. You complain and complain to all who will listen about your "childhood traumas" and horrible past, but FAIL TO DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT. Here's a newsflash for you: nobody is required to tippy-toe around other people in fear of tripping over one of their emotional landmines. YOU are responsible for your own mental health. So get help or don't, but if you don't, you cannot blame me or anyone else when you get a flashback. Seriously.

Posted Tuesday, May 29 (8:41 PM) by "Karen Nesbit"
As stated in my above post, you were NOT FAIR. IN FACT, IN YOUR LATEST POST, YOU GO BLAMING THE VICTIM AGAIN. (AND BRICK IS THE ONE WITH THE REAL PROBLEMS. I'D RATHER TAKE MINE THEN HIS or Chris's). Plus, MOFO is not a corporatoin or affiliated with law enforcement. It is a social group that used to have a connection with Penguicon but Kimba ended that. it's rules need to be the not so fascist. (which it never was before and suddenly became) and yes, it is all Kimba's fault. If she had not violated her own rules with her original post and kept it off list, it would have never happened. When you poke a bear and it mauls you, whose fault if it? as far as the bullies harassing me, there you go blaming the victim again when you're the one who they approached and answered back and got involved for whatever sick reason. it ain't my fault that the person (and it is mostly one with many fake IDs and too much time) suffers from BPD and makes me her target. I stated before, no one felt like approaching you who sides with me and agrees with me. they figured it wouldn't do any good. AND IT'S NOT FAIR EXCLUDING THOSE YOU KNOW WOULD VOTE FOR ME FROM VOTING BECAUSE OF SOME STUPID POLICE RULE. You can't even begin to call your self fair. you aren't. YOu hurt me deeply. YOU. DId you tell your audience how you timed the vote just before Christmas? (UNfair). How you kept telling me KImba was hurt while ignoring my own pain? Dude, just look at you defending some police rule in excluding my friends from voting and how unfair it all is. basically, I hope to never see Kimba again. If I do, I hope her tongue burns from red pepper. as for you, you proved time and again you ain't my friend. Now go find some other bullied person to blame.

Posted Tuesday, May 29 (8:44 PM) by "Karen Nesbit"
as for how I defended myself, Kimba proved she is an MPC and has been helping them a year earlier when she went around claiming I cursed Brick which was BS. So , I simply used the MPC tacticts used on me for over 7 years. tell me this: Why is it okay for the MPCs to do it to me but me wrong to use it back? That's what I see you saying. They insulted my appearance (never mind that both Kimba and Bad Kitty are fatter then me) with four letter words over 1000 times a week. Oh, I forgot. Kimba said, "i'm sorry, but I'll do it again." and that made it all better. and then YOU BULLIED ME TOO

*Note I added links to show her very obvious projections, manipulations and sociopathic tendancies.

Posted Tuesday, May 29 (9:17 PM) by Stu Chisholm
SO FAST YOU ARE to play the victim card! Let me lay this out for you: when you viciously attack someone and then refuse to take ownership of your actions, it does NOT MATTER what your past is! YOU are the bully. Get it? I only blame you for what's YOURS. (And you do deserve plenty of blame.)
Both Chris and Brick were your FRIENDS at one time. When friends have problems, a true friend does not attack them; they do not mock them; they do not insult them. They SUPPORT them. They give them sympathy and empathy. You attack them to make yourself feel better. Here's another factoid for you: just because others have problems does NOT make them wrong, nor does it negate YOUR PROBLEMS.
MOWFO never needed a policy to deal with troublemakers before you started this stuff. You forced our hand. I had no choice but to do something. Now, in the overall scheme of things, MOWFO is nothing more than a loose-knit group of friends who get together to support fandom and, above all. socialize. It's not important to anyone but us, I guess. But when one person comes into a group and causes trouble, some "police action" is called for. Instead of re-inventing the wheel, I took a tip from my local co-op board where I lived back in the '70s. They used surveys and consensus. Worked every time. What could be more fair?
By no stretch of the imagination can you say I bullied you in any way. In fact, I stood by you the whole time, writing paragraph after paragraph of insight, intel and advice... and YOU told me that you stopped reading it. You kicked me in my teeth for all my effort. I can't answer for Kimba Wilson, and barely know Bad Kitty. If you have unresolved issues with them, you need to take it up with them and leave ME out of it. As for your issues with me, I've quite vividly described my perspective above. I've always been straight with you. I hold no malice. And I still strongly suggest that you find a good, professional counselor that you trust and get some help and support. If you really do have childhood trauma, don't let it hold you back or make you a social pariah. Just get the help you need.

This was a copy and paste from a Facebook shit-storm that KO launched. Apparently against Stu because he would not change the MOWFO group's name. I'm not sure if this is even still on his wall. She could have reported it. If it was on her wall, you can bet all your money that she deleted it. You'd be richer by double!

It is also hilarious that she's the one with all these sockpuppet IDs while accusing others of it. Mirror, Mirror on the wall, see the Psycho on her Wall. Blaming others for her own game, when it comes back to bite her in the fat ass of her shame!

Now onto the screencaps. Stu had finally been pushed and pushed by the continuing psycho bully Karen Nesbit a/k/a KO:



Stu's Facebook can be found here:

To my knowledge and through people who know him, Stu is a very open and HONEST man. He does not hide from the lies of a sociopath like KO.

His link is open for all to see.

If you wanna see the further stupidity of KO and how she tries to come off as the know-it-all of everything, read Stu's wall around 6 October. I saw that just by looking it over and found that. Fucking Missy Little Prissy Troll.

I am sure that's not the only time she's taken something that was meant as a joke about food and ran off to some stupid hissy fit over it. She takes a swipe at the local sci-fi fans too. Yeah they're all mean, evil, evil. And according to her warped twisted psycho lies and BS, others are bullies while she continues to post this kind of shit, when she isn't getting enough attention, OBSERVE the BULLY in action here:


And believe me - that is just the TIP OF THE ICE-BERG! Her wall reads like one long attack against many people mixed in with obvious signs she's never been laid.

Because calling people the names she's always calling them is safer to do on Facebook. Hooker, Ugly, Autistic Cage Man, etc. so much safer than actually saying it to them to their faces. FTR; these people have been harassed only via internet by her. KO did threaten to beat the "Hooker" up in a parking garage once in another forum she's long since been banned from but she's never confronted them face to face. She acted an imbecile while Kimba was present to "guard her". Now Kimba knows what she is. I'm sure at the time she was probably confused by KO's antics at conventions though.

Yeah, who's the BULLY here? Hmm, it looks like the one screaming the loudest about being bullied is the real bully! Welcome to the Reality Check you bullying coward, KO!

Boring old fat ugly KO. Just can't get a life, let alone get laid.


  1. KO did harass those people in real life too, but not to the extent she does online. She has followed Shay (the one being called a nutter) around at conventions, asked to pet her hair or pet her, to which Shay politely refused to be touched by that thing, and she has cornered Shay with her bitching about other people because Shay was watching someone's table and couldn't just leave. Shay wanted to run.

    KO has cornered Kitty (the one she calls Ugly Kitty) at conventions too with a barrage of babbling about others. Mainly about Dirk Benedict and Tracy, his online friend or whoever.

    And yes she has also followed Diane around (the one she calls a hooker) at conventions to get right behind her and make whistling sounds and shouting out "There's my stalker!" whenever Diane would happen to be visible to her.

    So she has harassed them online and offline in real life time, in person. It was always done in the most cowardly way and none of her actions can even remotely be called "confronting" so we're both right.

  2. Feeling all sorry for Big Fudge going through crap but ignoring that I was going through crap and was down

    Reality Check; Fudge (Kimba) and her husband had had their home broken into twice! They were robbed, they were home on one of those occassions and faced possible death. They also lost one of their babies due to the anxiety the poor puppy suffered because the puppies were home both times their home was broken into and that was hell to go through.

    KO's big huge problem that SHE was "going through" was that Bill did not invite her to a party. Yet it's KO (that MISERY bitch of psycho-ville) who is raging on and on) and she wonders why people just can't stand her. The fucking psycho really has no capabilities of being human!

    They insulted my appearance (snip) with four letter words over 1000 times a week.

    A THOUSAND times a WEEK! Wow, that's some stalking skill right there! She must have been eating gobs of crack and meth to get all that. I wonder if she has an actual number of someone's four-letter-words during the course of a week or if that was just another one of her hyperbolé? I'll go with the latter and chock it up as her usual exaggerations on what people she hates do with their time. Not that she doesn't stalk them, mind you.

    Last good point: She's a 50-soemthing woman who wears pigtails. Enough said there.

    I have yet to see her make even ONE or even FIRST good point and her "last good point" was nothing more than an attack on someone's hair! Wow. Real devastating little moronic flame on someone. Oh we're all so burned now....NOT!

    Besides that her snarky 'enough said here' wasn't actually enough for her because she went on to post more about it on LJ.

    Has any abuser admitted to perpetrating the abuse ever?

    NO! KO still plays her victim card all the time despite the fact that she's the one who has perpetrated abuse and won't admit to any of the abuse she's dished out for years and all her life! So no, the answer would be NO!

    Now go find some other bullied person to blame.

    Like Charles Manson or John Lennon's killer or Ted Bundy or the Syrian leader. All these people are up KO's alley.

  3. Me thinks that now the entire internet knows that KO IS evil, psychotic, stalker, troll and ugly.

    KO is the E-Thug not the MPC's (Misery Pest Control)

    KO ever heard of privacy settings at Facebook? No one found and reported it your disgusting Facebook page and fake user name BTW. Also, FYI KO it's against Facebook's TOS to use a fake name at their site.

    And you KO wouldn't the truth if it bit you on your ugly ugly ugly ugly ugly psychotic troll ass!

  4. The actual start of the shitstorm that resulted in my FB post (on both her wall and, twice, on mine -- she got it pulled the first time, but after she saved me the effort of blocking her by blocking me, not the second), it was a private e-mail calling me a liar. She damned well knows that's something I simply don't do. Normally, I'd not give a whit about what she thinks, but she then said, "don't bother replying because I won't read it." LOL! Well, that was a FAIL, because I was going to make damned well SURE that she read EVERY SINGLE LAST WORD. The following weeks have been almost blissful, as she's no longer in my FB feed, nor do I hear anything from/about her anywhere. Recently, though, people have told me about her mouthing off about me personally. As always, I could care less. The only place I draw the line is if she tries to cost me business, which was apparently her latest strategy. I informed her in a private e-mail that I won't tolerate it.

    1. Thank you Stu for commenting! I also thank you for your post on LJ!

    2. Thanks Stu! I added your LJ links in my latest blog so your side WILL be heard despite that Psycho's efforts to silence you.

  5. Dj stu has more calm and patience for her then I do. my solutions involved deep holes and slow linguring painful deaths. but one can only dream.... I hope if her story of cancer or someother problem is long and painful as karma dictates. could not happen to a nicer person.